Living Today

  Emotional balance Feelings can be well defined as spontaneous instincts that occur in human beings all the time. It may be stimulated at any point, depending on the situation that we experience. Balancing emotions make a strong bond of relationships among human beings. The emotions that we precede may result in all thoughts and actions. Approaching others with balanced emotions will nurture the bond of human relationships along with a sacrificing attitude. Sometimes the situation may compel us to hide our real emotions provided to replicate attractive emotions. Most people have learned the art of hiding real and natural emotions that occurs from time to time. One should be very alert to emotions as they may cause any kind of unexpected result. We will fail to sense a matter properly when we give priority to our emotions. Positive emotions balance our life whereas negative emotions imbalance it. Emotions are molded as positively or negatively. Positive emotions are love, c...

  Sympathy It is a bonding of human relationships where one reclaims the basic values in him. People realize human values through the people around the world. Sympathy is not concerned with asking for help from someone, but acting spontaneously according to one’s need. One can reduce the sufferings into lighter by understanding and concerning their sorrows as ours. Help us to forget ourselves. The spontaneous act of helping and feeling sympathy makes us forget ourselves for a while. It enriches moral values and develops a sense of caring for others. We will reinforce our lost virtues through sympathy. When something happens to someone, we may move with sympathy to raise them up. (e.g., an accident) Sharing emotions People may have different emotions at different times. But during distress, they will be united with simple feelings to share the same emotions to grasp a common goal. Distance may lessen the feeling of emotions but it can be increased with nearness. It is the ...

  Childhood The most attractive phase in our life. The memories of childhood last till death. One may wish to go back to childhood, but unluckily no one is enough rich to buy back one’s childhood. Childhood memories enable us to recollect and continue childish acts in adulthood. It is a time when one creates a wonderful world for everyone. The hardships of the parents can be covered with a simple smile from their beloved ones. Children during their childhood days accept everyone with a pleasant mind without any prejudice and learn to share things with others with a view to enriching happiness. Stage of growth . One realizes and recognizes the world during childhood.   A child may make false promises to accomplish a short-living thing.   But when the child receives punishments against the false oaths, he recollects it and changes his attitude enabling him to take a true promise that lasts long. Guardian of the truth. Children reveal the truth without any hesita...

  Decision The greatest difficulty in our life is choosing the right thing. An entity that is used very frequently in our life. Our every day is blessed with a lot of choices where we are forced to make decisions. The instincts that impulse us to take decisions very often. Decisions can be planned or non-planned. Planned decisions may end in desired results as it has the nature of hard work and well evaluation. Whereas nonplanned decisions may carry unexpected results. The decision is important and can achieve greater importance when we have continuity in it. Why do we confuse? The decision becomes harder when there is too much information about them and naturally the varied number of choices makes us confused. We are muddled when it relies upon cultural, regional, and language-based. One may afraid about whether a comeback is available in his choice and think further about the changes that create in his life. The nature of coming back depends on the choices that we create ...

  Failure … where we couldn’t achieve the desired end.           Failure has a different meaning and definition from person to person. Society has specified a negative picture of the term failure. The world may not stand with failures.   Failures happen at every point of our journey but it precedes further with negative evaluations.           It’s time to realize that accepting failure is the greatest success a person ever has. No one can defeat you after the acceptance of the failure. Do we successful if we keep quiet? No, never, if we are not trying the right choice at the right time is equal to failure. It gives us opportunities to learn. There are a lot of opportunities that lead us to success. But the opportunity through a failure gives us a greater level of concern. One can find failure as the right medium of education rather than success. Once you are failed at a particul...

  Beliefs… Perusing things that happen in our life. Seeing is believing. Beliefs may differ from person to person. People alter their beliefs according to their situations in life. One may lose it when there are adverse situations in life and become stronger when it fulfills the trust that is laid upon them. Belief is power, you just trust in it. Our beliefs may have a questionable result when it has a dubious nature. Life will be meaningful only when you believe in it.   People who lost perceptions in life are failed to believe in themselves. All powers are within us, then why don’t we believe in them? If you believe in yourselves after knowing your strength and weakness, you are a powerful person, and no one can rout you. When we are strong in ourselves, we are able to influence others with our powerful thoughts. A strong belief takes risks, struggles, and hardships. Nelson Mandela has got a strong belief in himself, which enabled him to accomplish freedom for the ...